Nick Perito Memorial
 
It is very sad when the old giants leave us. And I loved Nick's arrangement of "The Father Of Girls," in which he completely captured its spirit - so much so that Johnny Mercer wrote me a note that said: "I'm listening to Perry Como sing 'The Father Of Girls.' Marvelous song." High praise from The Master. 
Ervin Drake
 
With deep sadness I learn that the great Nick Perito has left us. It is good to hear that he didn't  suffer and that he passed in peace. As with Perry Como we can trust in his recorded legacy that will continue to amaze people and get them happy in every corner of the world. Now and for future generations. Because the music and style is eternal.
All my blessings to the Perito family.
Opera singer
Bengt Krantz,
Sweden.

Veuillez transmettre mes sincères condoléances à la
famille Perito.
Stephan Koenig (Belgium)

I will always remember his taking time to speak to me after one of the Christmas shows at Hershey Arena….. He was busy and smiling as he carried arrangements and other items on several trips from the stage to the bus.  He stopped to talk…about Perry and all the traveling. 
Doug Bell
Charlotte, North Carolina
 
I am sorry to hear such sad news.  I associate names like Nick Perito, Perry Como, and Mitchell Ayres not only with excellent music, but as the influences of my youth.  Perry’s recordings are some of the first that I can remember, and I have a “warm spot” for all of those associated with him who helped create his art. Our generation is losing our roll models.  I do hope a definitive set of Como CD’s can be released at some point.  There is a new generation hungry for quality… and there may never be another Nick, Perry or Mitchell.
Gil Nelson
Denison, Texas
 
The loss of Nick is very shocking. I am forwarding the email Nick sent to me Friday the 29th. The email is a wonderful example of his outlook on life and the fight and love in this mans heart.
Ron Rosa
Denver, Colorado
 
My heart goes out to Nick's family. I am EXTREMELY saddened by this news. God bless Nick. As Greg rightly put it: 'Perry and Nick are once again making beautiful music together' Thank goodness I had the chance to make good conversation with Nick through his book and he sent me a video of some memorable bits, along with me scanning a picture of him and Perry for him! He certainly accomplished a lot! GOD BLESS HIM!
Matthew Long ( a 15 year-old fan )
England
 
. . . what sad news indeed.  What a shock for the family, seeing as he was "on the mend".  My heart and prayers go out to his family in this time of sorrow.  But, like Greg says, Perry and Nick are once again, together, making wonderful music! 
Linda Maxom
Manitoba, Canada
 
Unfortunately, I didn't even have to read the message to find out what the sad news was........as soon as I saw the heading, I knew what it was....I'd been afraid I was going to hear about Nick........
Charlene Blassingham
Florida
 
As time goes by….the taller the tree…..the greater the void when is falls.     It is an appointment all of us must keep.   One can only be happy to have known and heard their music….     The sadness will always be with the family and many others.   In some way …we adjust and keep on keeping on. Much music has been composed….songs have been written…..because of the loss of a friend or a loved one….or a family member.  I don’t remember growing older ….when did they? For the Perito  family…..you were the little boy at play…. you were the little girl he carried.   How fortunate.   He lives on in you and his music. For Mrs. Perito…..you were his Roselle. He knew you and you knew him as no other.   Parting is such sweet sorrow.   However,  he will be waiting for you….just as Perry and many others have been waiting to renew their spirits together. Sunrise….sunset….quickly go the days.  Make the most of the rest of your lives….and that would be all he would ask. When Mr. C. died…the internet had so little about him.    There is much to find about Nick and Perry on the internet and at this website. I have come to believe that is the reason for such a good man to live….almost his destiny….to preserve the music and songs…..and all who worked to make the recordings of such quality.    Perry Como chose his friends.     He chose Nick Perito….    There have been and are many he called “friend”. He did not just happen to be there….I call it another Devine appointment. I bet I can read your mind.
Doug Bell
Charlotte, North Carolina
 
I just received the e-mail that Nick Perito passed away this morning.  How fortunate we are to have he and Perry together on so many songs and will have them as long as we are here.  It is so hard to know that he's gone, too, and I was so sorry when I read my mail. 
Patsy Summer
 
I was very saddened to hear of Nick Perito's passing . . . He was very gracious to me after I sent you and Nick the "Cole Porter in Paris" TV soundtrack dub...and so well-traveled, musically speaking . . . what a shame . . .
Charlie Honold
Croonerville/Oh Frenzy!
 
My deepest sympathy to the Nick Perito family.  As a fan and not personally knowing Mr. Perito or much about his life, I could only admire his talent which was so wonderful, and his association with Perry Como produced such beautiful music, the like of which seems never to grace our world again.  The dignity with which they lived their lives is also unmatched.  True role models in the entertainment world, which it is sorely lacking today.  They are making beautiful music together again.  May your wonderful memories uplift you in the days ahead.
Nancy Lacey
 
So sad . . .  Somehow I can't help feeling it's all fading away. But so much pleasure they gave us! But it's still there, and those wonderful people still keeps us happy. It's a nice epitaph - keeping us happy as long as we live,
Willy Wettegren
Sweden
 
Nick and Perry made some very magical sounds together and created some of the most beautiful music ever heard!
Sylvia Arnone
 
Rejoice in the respect so many people had for your dear father I am quite sure that all of you do just that. I am sure he must have felt blessed by having spent so many years with Perry Como, and  I am sure Perry come must have felt the same. Bless you all and your sweet memories.
Paul Austin, London W12
 
What a sad loss of a wonderful, special human being.  Those of us who did not have the pleasure of knowing Nick Perito personally are united with his good friends in recognizing his tremendous legacy of beautiful music that will live on, including his special affiliation with Perry Como.  His must have truly been a life well lived!
Sue Casillas
California
 
What heartfelt sentiments from his family.  It's truly touching.  I include him in my nightly prayers along with Perry and countless others. It does touch the heart to know that perfect strangers can offer their sympathies and that they are lovingly accepted.
Linda Maxom
Manitoba, Canada
 
Our most sincere sympathy is extended to Nick Perito's family at this time of sadness and loss.  But we rejoice in the confidence that his spirit lives forever in the presence of the Risen Lord.
Sincerely,
MAH and family
 
I first connected with Nick Perito through my good friend and colleague, Len Triola in New York. From the moment I spoke to him on cell phone from a restaurant in Chelsea about our mutual love of all things Perry, Italian, music and family, I knew I had made a "friend for life!" Little did I know just how short a short relationship it would be and that I would never get to actually meet him! We e-mailed each other right up to the end and he actually instructed his son to send me some of his treasured arrangements for songs he felt I should possibly record! I am so honored to have them in my possession! 
He provided so much beautiful music to his generation and we may never see his "authentic" likes again!
An enormous fan,
Lynn DiMenna
 
I watched with admiration Perry Como’s last Christmas performance. Mr. C was singing, “Wind beneath my Wings”. Mr. C seemingly (to me) missed a line during the performance. Even so, he covered for it by continuing the song without that line. Nick Perito watched and listened as the entire orchestra caught up and subtly applauded the team of professionals. It was nice recognition of a “job well done”… while making certain that the performer in the spotlight remained unscathed.
Harvey Cohen
 
One of the best ways I know to honor the memory of Nick Perito and Perry Como is to purchase the music they worked so diligently to produce for all of us to hear. Their kind of talent comes along once in a lifetime. I'm glad to have been around to appreciate it.
Larry Posner
 
Nick Perito was a gentleman and a talented musician, a fine human being who I was proud to call a friend.  Nick will be missed by all of us.
Johnny Knox
 
If Nick has to be away from us...I'm happy to know that he'll be waiting for us all!  In the meantime...and may it be a while...all of us must do whatever necessary to keep his masterful work alive AND in front of new people.
A lot has been expressed about Perry & Nick....and other vocalists.  But let's never forget his instrumental work!  Nick recorded his OWN albums in the early 60's....Blazing Latin Brass, Latin Brass Goes To Italy and a host of singles including my favorite...The Green Leaves Of Summer.  These recordings are locked away in Capitol's vaults...only to someday be rediscovered. Perhaps my favorite arrangement of Nick's was written for his...at one time teachers at Julliard...Ferrante & Teicher!  The arrangement was "Fly Me To The Moon" and it swinged like no other!!  Of course Nick wrote some 50 arrangements for F & T...not to mention Producing 12 of their albums...5 of which went gold.  All four Top 10 F & T singles were conducted by Nick!!  In addition...I'd venture to say that Nick Conducted more recordings for Ferrante & Teicher than anyone else!  According to my records...Nick conducted an astonishing 889 songs for Ferrante & Teicher and their orchestra!!  The only time Nick didn't conduct was because of his full schedule.  Art & Lou were the best in the business and that's why they brought Nick in to conduct every chance they could.  The magic created by Nick, Don Costa and F & T will NEVER be created by any other team! Nick...you are loved by all of us, never forgotten and always highly revered.  We were blessed to have you on our side!
Scott W. Smith
Personal Manager, Ferrante & Teicher

 
I didn't know the man (Nick), I didn't know Perry either. But both men touched my heart and I will be forever grateful. Thank the dear Lord for cassettes, LP's and CD's. Both will live forever every time I play their music!
Best always
Linda Maxom
Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada

It was 1979 when I first listened Nick's hearful and passionate music with Perry Como's sweet voice. I never can forget the night, because it was great shock!!!! How wonderful sound it was!!. I have never been experienced such a kind of shock, and found out that the sound was Nick, Nick's  personality and his character, hearful, passionated and sweet !!!. Now I have much harder shock to have lost great artist Nick Perito, but I know his music and sound shall never die."Nick and Judy were just like my parents in the United States.  They always had been welcomed my friends, my family and myself whenever we have opportunities to visit L.A.  Many thanks and God bless his Soul!"

Love,
Hiromi Yaguchi
Tokyo, Japan
 
I was very sad to hear that Mr. Perito passed away but now he is with good company. Can't you just see Perry on the stool singing and Nick on the piano. Boy what a sight.
May you rest in Peace Nick
John Gildea (A Fan)
 
Much to my regret, I feel the world will never again know what these two wonderful men accomplished. They gave to us some of the most beautiful sounds that could only come from two 'masters' of their art. Perry Como and Nick Perito were a match made in heaven and they loved and shared what they did best. I will be eternally grateful to both of  these beautiful men for all the joy I have received listening to their music.
Sincerely,
Patsy Summer

Passionate is the word that first comes to mind when I think of Nick. We met at the home of another great Italian musician, Harry Warren. From our first introduction I was crazy about Nick because of his kindness, his knowledge, and his ability to "tell it like it is". Shortly thereafter, we worked together on a demo of Harry's songs and had a ball doing it, but I was understandably nervous. What a thrill it was to work with the man who had worked with Perry Como and so many others!  The last time I saw Nick was when he conducted for Regis Philbin in Las Vegas only a few months ago. He was not happy with his performance because the sound was not to his satisfaction and he had trouble hearing on stage. My reaction was to express how wonderful I thought the band sounded and how he, on his worst day, could still out do anyone else on a podium. Nick's reaction was to give me one of his big broad smiles, one that I will remember every time I think of him.   Michael Feinstein

I have something very nice to say about Nick and Perry. It was the last weekend of July '71. I flew to Vegas to see Perry and then the Int'l hotel. I saw the show Thursday, Saturday & Sunday. It was the weekend of Perry’s 38th wedding anniversary. Saturday night I sat at one of the front tables as I had on Thursday. But this night was the anniversary date if I remember correctly. That evening while Perry was in the middle of his monolog I asked the other viewers to pass along an anniversary. card. Timing was wrong, a stage hand walked on to pick up Perry’s stool. However some four hours later I met Nick in the lobby. He stops to speak with me. Actually he asked, where were you last night, Perry was waiting for you. That was quite a surprise, but then again Perry is that kind of a guy. Nick said after the Sunday show, my third opportunity to see Perry, come to my dressing room but should I be stopped tell them you're my nephew. I did so want to meet Perry, I had so many memories of things that happened, one of which I entered the same elevator as Perry and Mitch Ayres but was to dumb founded to say anything... well I did meet with Nick in his dressing room. He took me next door to Perry’s room where at I met his only girl in his world. I couldn't have expected more. Her first words to me were "you're such a fan". Then Perry entered at the rear of me and I could feel him eyeing me and then he came around and we spoke for 20 minutes. This was because of Nick that I have such a lasting memory of him. He had also mentioned if and when he and Perry were in NY he would have me present at the recording session. As you can tell by my rattling on that Perry has been a fixture in my life and another opportunity to meet another gentle man. He and Perry were like twins with the same personality and spirit. God Bless them.
Tom Abbate
 
His presence livened any room. His attitude toward life and living enlightened our spirits and his music will provide a lasting embrace of our hearts 
Ward Grant
Another Denver boy
 
I serve as the Chaplain at the Motion Picture and Television Fund where Nick Perito spent his last days. I visited with him several times and his family was often present. It is common to share with people, the words of the Lord's Prayer. Knowing that Nick was into music, I suggested that we might sing the Mallott version of the prayer and he agreed. And so we did, with some of his family joining in. It was a "first" and a very moving moment that I will never forget! Nick and I exchanged books that we had written, with him giving me a copy of "I Just Happened to Be There" He signed it: "To My Favorite Chaplain. I'm forever grateful for the many things and concepts you have already taught me. You're the best! Love and gratitude forever! Nick Perito
It is one of my cherished possessions.
Thank you.
David Grant
Chaplain
MPTF
 
No matter how much others miss Nick Perito….his family….surely misses him more. How fortunate to have been in the Nick Perito family…  Our love and admiration for  that household …and family. Nick Perito lives on…..because of who and what he was….and what he did.  To the family….and his associates …and fans….  He is with God.    That is what life is all about.  
Doug Bell
North Carolina 
 
I just want to say, I play piano but I have never heard anyone play as tastefully as Nick did. If you listen to how he played behind Perry Como on: "And I Love You So”....
Live in Ireland 1993, Great!
David Valentino age 49
West Chester, PA

 

Nick will stay  with us forever in our hearts and minds.   We will bear this deep sorrow as a part of his love and happiness he gave us with his so beautiful music.

Thank you Nick.             

Violet and Yoshi

Japan

 

We were very happy and honored to be present at the statue dedication of Perry Como in his hometown of Canonsburg, PA on May 15, 1999.  Unfortunately, Perry was not feeling well enough to attend which was a great disappointment to all of his fans.  However, we were all absolutely delighted that Nick Perito was there for all of the ceremonies, celebrations and festivities of the entire day and his presence was so uplifting and comforting to all of us!!!   I wish we could have had a recording of all of the wonderful things that Nick had to say about Perry and his many memorable years of working with him and being his personal and very close friend!  He related many amusing stories about Perry and it was easy to see what a great time these two wonderful guys had together and what great love and respect they had for one another!!
 
That evening at the dinner reception,  we were very fortunate to hear Nick again and to be entertained by him and his wonderful musicians---and several of the Como family members also sang---we were very fortunate to have a table right next to the stage and were delighted to be so close to watch him  perform his magic once again--- his smile, his enthusiasm, and his energy filled the room with a bunch of very happy and delighted people----once again we were entertained with some of the greatest music ever heard---he truly was a master!!
 
I really believe that he did not "just happen to be there"---this was all  Divine Intervention---the Greatest Master of us all had a very special plan for these two special souls (Perry and Nick) to meet, to work together and to touch the world in a very special way with the magic of the music they created together----what a blessing for  the whole world to be able to enjoy this music forever!  We thank the Lord for blessing us with the wonderful talents of these two very special men!  May He grant them eternal peace and happiness!
 Sylvia and Tony Arnone

. . . with condolences to The Perito family
Judy, Terry, Jennie, Danny & Shelia
 

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